Tips and Tactics for Generating Sustained Quality Shadchan Attention
What can a single and her family do to maximize quality shadchan attention on her behalf?
The answer to that question can be best expressed by the following two concepts. 1. Help the shadchanim help you by making it easier for shadchanim to get a boy and his family interested in considering the shidduch. 2. Be someone whom the shadchanim wants to help. What follows is a bare-bones outline of some of the ideas that are included in these two concepts.
1) Help the shadchanim help you.
2) Be someone whom the shadchanim want to help.
3) Financial Incentives.
These are just roshei perakim of the various ideas that singles, their families and communities can consider to maximize shadchan attention. I am happy to share what we have learned over the last decade via input from tens of shadchanim, singles, dating mentors, and trial and error. Feel free to email firstname.lastname@example.org to arrange a presentation.